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Wednesday, August 5, 2015

Buying Drinks

Bars are advanced social environments. While it seems that the people there are just laid back, there is a lot going on. There are rules of etiquette and social calibration rules that set the tone of how the particular night will go. Its important to know bars are all inclusive. The doorman have more than one function of simply checking people's age and monitoring. They architect the night, by bringing in people who contribute to the social quality of the night which over many nights adds to the vision for the bar set by the owners. Buying drinks is a social mechanism that adds to your social status. There is a proper sequence of value build up and communication that happens over the course of the night. The best time to buy drinks is when your escalation is moving too fast in a way that could affect her social status. To ease the speed to a more comfortable level, buying her a drink can be a social etiquette move that can smoothly allow her to save face while still moving the pickup forward. 

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